I grew up in the church most of my life but for the last few years ive stopped going due to the many diferent ideas of and about this world and all that; But out of all the things they've told me i can and can not do ive never once been told that im not aloud to take birth control. Ive always been told that you plan to have a family and if your not ready, once married, to have children that any form of birth control (besides abortion) is totally allowed.