Yes! I also have had a relationship that was destroyed by porn and I have heard many women say the same and read many articles about the harms of porn.

Porn is influencing men and boys to brutalize women as several of these articles/web sites explain:

Pornography as a Cause of Rape

As 'rape' images rise, will life imitate porn?

Pornography forms French children's views on sex

Hustling the Left

Pornography is a Left Issue

Revisiting the Porn Debate

The Porn Debate

Not a Fantasy: Racial Hatred and Misogyny in Pornography

I hope the above articles will show what many men would like to sweep under the rug - that porn is harmful, misogynist, racist, and not harmless "naughty" fun.